1. Intro

In my guide about one-night stands I said that younger BBW women are more difficult to have one-night stands with. I briefly said that with younger women, it has a lot more to do with being in the same social circle and having common friends. The short answer as to why you most likely have to be in the same social circle if you want a one-night stand with a younger girl is that you are familiar to her friends and the people within it probably trust that you are a safe guy. Also, if a girl happens to have a one-night stand with a guy within her social circle, and people actually find out, she doesn’t necessarily come off as a slut; people tend to have a “whatever, they had sex” attitude, as long as you are a familiar guy and not some complete stranger. In other words, if you are a guy that her friends know, then it’s cool for her to have random sex with you, but if you are a complete stranger, then she is a slut if she has random sex with you. This is exactly why it seems so much easier to have random sex with a busty girl that you share common friends with.

2. BBW ONS

To a younger BBW, her social circle is everything, and when you’re talking about younger people, they most likely won’t approve of their friends having one-night stands with guys that they don’t know. However, when it comes to older women (over 25), people are much more laid back. If the big woman in question wants to have a one-night stand then that’s her business. No one is really going to care. In fact, when an older busty woman is out with her friends, they tend to have a “you go girl” type attitude when she meets a guy she likes. That and her friends trust that she’s mature enough to make her own decisions when it comes to her safety.

3. Plus Size Women Friends With benefits

This leads me up to the purpose of this post: how to have a one-night stand with the younger BBW that you meet when you’re out (25 and under, but use your own judgment: does it seem like her friends don’t care, or does it seem like her friends have a pack mentality?). With a younger big woman, your main concern should be disappearing from her friends. If you can get a girl away from her friends, then she can decide whether or not to have sex with you without having to worry about how she will be viewed by her friends, and without having to worry about her friends interfering and cockblocking even if it is clear that she wants you. If you can’t get her away from her friends, then the chances of you having a one-night stand with a younger chick that you cold approached are damn near ZERO. In fact, the only chance you stand is if every person that she is with also wants to sleep with you (in which case they’ll do whatever and compete for you), or the girl(s) she is with want to hook-up with your friend(s). Again, the chances of this happening are VERY low as well. It is very rare to talk to a group of busty girls and have all of them wanting you, and it is rare for her friends also want to hook-up with your friends.

4. BBW Hookups

This is exactly why if you hope to have sex with a younger chick that isn’t in your social circle, then you have to get it to where it is a one on one situation. On one hand, if her friends are around, then there are the problems of her looking like a slut for leaving with a strange guy that no one knows, and her friends not trusting that she has the maturity to make her own decisions when it comes to her safety. And on the other hand, if your friends are around, then there is the problem of her worrying about being around people that she is unfamiliar with and might feel uneasy about. Now that you understand that it has to be a one on one type situation, you have to understand that younger BBW don’t have a “whatever” type attitude about sex. Like I said, older women don’t see occasional random sex as a bad thing, so it’s easier to be more direct about it with them. Younger curvy women have to feel like sex “just happened” and that it wasn’t intentional, so you have to be a little more indirect with them.

5. BBW Personals

As I said before, you have to get a younger BBW away from her friends if you want to have a one-night stand with her. It’s not as simple as “let’s go to my apartment” or whatever. You have to lead her step by step. First, you might want to take her to another part of the bar. Next, you might want to take her to a bar closeby, and then finally, to your place or hers. Ideally, you just want her to get lost (from her friends). If the two of you don’t get out of sight, then I can guarantee that her friends will come find the two of you. This is exactly why you want to get out of the venue alone. The reason why you can’t just go straight from the first bar to your apartment is that you want her to feel like her friends aren’t going to see you leaving together. If they see you leaving the first bar, and they catch you, she can easily say that she was just going to a bar next door or across the street with you. This saves her from looking like a slut. However, if she were to get caught trying to go to your apartment, then it won’t reflect well on her, hence why younger busty women won’t even risk leaving with you if you try to take them straight to your apartment or anywhere far for that matter.

6. Chubby Girls

If a BBW is into you, and you’re at a bar or restaurant next door or across the street, you’ll see the oversized girl become a lot more comfortable around you knowing that her friends are not around. If a girl gets a call or message from her friends looking for her, it’s a lot easier for her to say “I’m at some bar with a friend (that “friend” being you)” or “I’m down the street with a friend”, then it is for her to say “I’m in the back” of the same bar her friends are already in, as they will come find her (I have been with several women that have used those types of lines when their friends made an attempt to get a hold of them). What this basically means for you is that when she knows that her friends aren’t around and won’t come find her, she’ll begin to act more in favor of her own sexual interests and impulses knowing that her social status within her group of friends is protected. By this point, it is your game to lose. You don’t have to do anything fancy. All you have to do is continue to communicate that you are a safe guy by not trying to be overtly sexual while you’re still out in public. If she wants to make a move on you, then fine. As the night goes on, if she doesn’t attempt to get back to her friends, then the chances that you’re going to go home with this chubby girl are very high. Even if she hasn’t decided to have sex with you yet, she’s going to stay with you out of safety, which means that you’ll have a lot of rapport and trust built up whenever you meet up again.

7. Conslusion

However, on the other hand, if her friends re-appear, then you just lost your chance to have sex with said girl. As long as they are around, then a one-night stand isn’t going to happen. I don’t care how much she likes you, if her friends aren’t also trying to get with you, or trying to get with a guy you’re with, then she will not risk looking like a slut in front of her friends, as younger women have a groupthink type mentality. So, to wrap this up, the main point that you want to take from this is that if you’re hoping to have a one-night stand with a younger BBW, then you need to manage to get lost alone with her and hope that her friends don’t find the two of you. Unless you can do that, then one-night stands with younger chubby women just aren’t going to happen.